The fear of Uncertainty
Life doesn't always give us what we want. In most cases, it takes us in the opposite direction of where we are trying to go. The question is, what do you do when you're on a path you did not ask for and was not ready to tread?. The thing with sudden and unexpected changes is, no body really wants to leave their comfort zone (even though we know that's where great things happen). We just don't want to stay out in an unfamiliar space for too long, and in the worst case, be dealing with an unfamiliar situation, in a particularly tough and under unfamiliar circumstances. I call it, "The fear of uncertainty". NOT knowing what is going to happen next is a daunting place to be, especially if you like to KNOW ahead of time and you are someone who likes to plan and be prepared for things so you know what moves you need to make to avoid unpleasant situations. See, life is funny because nobody really knows what is going to happen next, we all live wi...